The
#TruthWarrior
Podcast
Ep 107:
5 Myths of Fastfood Psychology
Description:
Today, let’s talk about five most common (and most dangerous) fast-food psychology myths: about pain, perception, power, past, and personality. We’ll see how these myths infiltrate our culture, why they’re so prevalent and so easy to fall for, and how despite their eloquent promises, they in fact impede our personal development, critical thinking, and spiritual growth - let alone how they sabotage our integrity and corrode our most important relationships.
In a world ass-high in bullshit like ours these days, everywhere from politics to religion to academic science to social media, it’s hard to practice resilience in the face of BS. It becomes especially crucial for the times of struggle, when the intensity of emotion may outweigh critical thinking and we become far more susceptible to gaslighting around our lived experiences. That’s where fast-food psychology steps in and capitalizes on our vulnerability.
Understanding the bullshit that we’re gonna be fed in such situations, both by people in our lives and through books, videos, podcasts, and other media sources, is what makes all the difference:
Will we get sold on another palliative remedy for our pain, or will we have the courage to rumble with the truth of our experience and own it to become the authors of our stories?
Evidence-based psychology doesn’t offer quick fixes, one-size-fits-all advice, and certain, black-and-white arguments. However, it’s exactly where you want to go if you’re committed to doing inner work and creating meaningful change in your life.
So just remember how the quality of the food for thought we consume impacts the quality of our mental growth. When you’re in struggle, remember to look for guidance and empowerment in the right places. And don’t hesitate to walk away from places that are trying to feed you crap.
Dear listener! 🙂🙌
At the moment, this podcast recording is only available as the audio version of my original YouTube video. As I don't have access to a dedicated studio and professional recording equipment, it's exceedingly possible that you will hear some noise in the background as you listen. As a recovering perfectionist and huge people-pleaser in the past, these things at times bother me perhaps even more than they bother you, and I shall be transparent with you around this.
Compromised sound quality was the cost I had to pay for filming my talks in the space that more or less resembled the setting of a middle-class Western life — the privileged setting in which, actually, I've never found myself throughout my life. The setting which, nevertheless, was required by the conventions of the YouTube genre. My Instagram and prospective YouTube audience — mostly Western, mostly white, mostly middle-class — would hardly want to see my talks, no matter the quality of my ideas, filmed in my POS car amidst Russian winter. My deficit of privilege, and the sound quality compromise I had to accept as a consequence, didn't mean I wasn't taking my content production seriously enough. As you watch, or listen to, my talks, you'll quickly see the substance and quality of my content. Those haven't come out of nowhere. They result from years of research, interviews, data collection, contextualization, and a very tough experience of my own artistic journey, the one I embarked upon against overwhelming odds.
My hope making these videos was to create added value for my audience around personal development, mental health, empathy, vulnerability, and human connection. Given the nature of these topics, I consciously chose to focus my efforts on authenticity and substance rather than on the form and technical aspects of my content. It's okay if you judge books by their covers and aren't interested in hearing from anyone who doesn't have a bleached smile, a professional microphone, and a nice Western [upper‑]middle‑class interior as their filming setting. It's okay if you have this unconscious conditioning, probably related with your own privilege, to see a person and their ideas as credible and worthy of your attention only if they look successful. It's okay, and it probably means my podcast isn't for you. There's plenty of content about relationships, personal development, and creativity made by middle-class, mostly white, mostly straight Western people that you might want to prefer over mine. However, it's been my existential observation that most powerful ideas and most transformative insights about life rarely come from people with privileged life experiences. They come from folks who'd gone through, survided, and constructively contextualized major trauma and oppression. It's not my merit or source of pride to find myself among those people. It does, nevertheless, make my experience of cultivating resilience, self-worth, and courage more profound and more impactful than those of people far more privileged than me. So whether you prioritize formal quality over the depth of the context or not, is totally up to you.
Please be informed, though, that in the future I plan to re-record my talks as audio podcasts with a better quality, in a noise-free enviroment (my car's the only one I can think of right now), and employ professional editing software to make them sound like "real", middle-class-American-standard quality podcasts. This conversion is just not in the cards for me right now, as I'm working three jobs trying to make ends meet after the COVID-19 recession in the already tanking economic landscape of Russia.
In 2019, recording 100+ video talks packed with substantial ideas took me almost a year of daily scripting, filming, editing, re-filming, being my own hairstylist, camera man, set designer, Web developer and Jack-of-all-trades-master-of-ALL kind of guy — juggling my other jobs to pay the bills at the same time. This year, having to work even more jobs and coming back to networking around my book project, I have very little time available for a work as time-consuming as re-recording podcast versions of my original talks.
As Pema Chödrön once said to Brené Brown about living up to everybody's expectations, What I do is enough. Amen here. From my disadvantaged place, doing what I've done for my audience over the years without any monetization so far, has been effing more than enough. So I do hope you get the awkward, brave message of self-compassion and self-worth — as a culturally subversive alternative to perfectionism — from my talks these days and act upon it in your own life. One day, I do hope to meet and connect with y'all from the professional platform, which, in my particular life, cannot come about from anywhere but years of hard work, unwavering commitment, and the increasingly difficult trust in the power of human connection. Until then, be brave, stay curious, say the truth, and take care.
Un abrazote (a huge Spanish hug) from me to y'all ❤️
Jorge